Dear Star,

I woke up in my best friend’s mother’s bed. I know I went to a club with some friends and we ran into each other and from there all I remember is waking up in her bed with a hang over. I was drunk and I guess one thing led to another. His mom begged me not to tell my best friend, her son. I look at my friend and I feel so guilty, all I can do is avoid him. What can I do to make this better?
Sincerely,
Mother Bedder

Dear Mother Bedder,
Lies and secrets always find a way to seep out. Step up to the plate and tell your best friend what happened because the longer you wait the harder it will hit your friend when the truth eventually comes out.
Be aware that when the truth comes out whether you tell it or someone else spills the beans, you will still have to pay for the consequence of your actions even if you were drunk out of your mind.

My husband cheated on me, but he doesn’t know that I know. I knew it from the moment he walked into the door and started to push me out. I could see it in his eyes. People told me but I refused to admit that he, the man I believed in with all my heart could do something like that to me. The fact that it happened doesn’t hurt me anymore but the fact that he doesn’t know does. Do you think it is part of the healing process to air out all your pain? Sort of a way to set yourself free?
Sincerely,
Letting Go and Being Set Free

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